smitten

I have the urge to analyze as to why I would be smitten with somebody.

1) I would be lying if looks doesn't matter. Looks matter... but my standards are often different from my girl friends. For many different guys, my friends would ask, what exactly do you see in him? I can never pinpoint a physical feature that they can see. Here's the thing, I would rather look at the most average looking guy and know there are something in his head then to look at a pretty face on a idiot. So it's no surprise that the one feature I usually go straight to are the eyes. Upper body strength is good too. I want him to hold on to me tight afterall.

2) No sex for ummm.... many months... drives me up the wall. Well I'm not desperate yet. Well ok I guess that's not a very good reason....

3) Maturity is a big one. By no means I want somebody who is "stick up his arse" mature. Just enough to know better and can take care of himself. It's hard to find somebody who knows how to treat me with respect and be attentive. It's not that much to ask for really. I'm not that demanding. If he would just ask me "how are you doing" or "what's wrong" once in a while then it would have been enough. I'm not that hard to read anyway... I'm either overly chipper or really quiet.

4) Wit and Intellect. It'll be nice for once to have somebody I can talk to about just anything. I love it when a person is totally uninhibited around me. I rarely get offended. And a person that can keep me challenged intellectually is just dead sexy. I mean, how else am I suppose to learn? I hate it that I don't read as much as I think I should, the sad thing is I read a whole lot more then most people I know. Um..... my field is getting a bit narrow.

So I guess I'm kinda 50/50 on the physical vs. mental thing right now.... Although you can chalk a bit of the first part to mental and discount #2 a little.... so lets say it's 70 mental, 30 physical then.